Masturbation is a normal and healthy thing, and there is nothing shameful about it. Even though male masturbation isn’t as taboo as women’s, somehow men using toys was never a popular topic to discuss. Choosing a mens masterbator should be done carefully, based on your needs and fantasies. Nowadays you can find many different and discrete options you can use on your own or with a partner. Sure, many people would use their hands, but manufacturers are offering so upgraded toys that they are completely realistic and feel as real as a human being.
Where to Start
Flashlight
The name comes from the looks, this mens masterbator is so discrete that no one will suspect it’s not a flashlight (well, unless they open it). It can increase or decrease the intensity of stimulation, depending on how you use it. This sex toy is very easy to use, as all it takes is for the lid to be opened.
If you open the bottom lid you can enjoy slow masturbation (thanks to reduced air passage). When the bottom lid is closed, the suction power increases, providing a stronger stimulation. For more intensive pleasure, open the bottom lid first, penetrate the flashlight and then close the bottom lid as you go deeper.
Realistic Vagina and Anus
This toy is a bit larger and resembles the bottom part of a woman’s body, allowing you to have as realistic feeling as possible. The fact that it gives you visual details of these parts, makes this toy even more pleasurable. This toy isn’t so discrete, but is surely worth it, if you feel like trying a sex toy that is entirely different from anything you have used so far.
Woman’s Torso
Much larger than the bottom parts toy, this is an entire torso of a woman’s body. It gives you the pleasure to enjoy perfectly realistic curves of the breasts, stomach, vagina and behind. If you are looking for the real-deal without minding too much about discretion, then this masturbator is your ideal choice.
Consider the Materials
If we put aside the pleasure, it’s very important to check the materials used for creating your masturbator. Your health must always be your top priority, so choose sex toys that are made of medical-grade silicone, which is known for its hypoallergenic and non-porous features. Not only does it resemble human flesh, but it’s also very durable and you can easily use your toys more than a hundred times. A quality medical-grade silicone will remain good as new no matter how slow or fast you use the masturbator (with a lubricant of course).
Why Get a Toy
There is no special reason why you need a masturbator. Get it because you want, because you’re curious and want to see how it works. Many men choose to get one for their lonely times, but there is no rule that it can’t be used when you have a special someone. It can be a great way to spice things up in the bedroom, be it with someone else or by yourself. It’s a great thing to have when you go on long trips away from your partner, and simply want to enjoy the lovely sensation of masturbation.
Many women aren’t ashamed to say that they are getting masturbators for their partners, wanting to keep them satisfied and content (especially when they are not together). It can be a perfect toy (and gift) for long-distance relationships, or for couples who want to try anything once.
Let’s not forget that there are people with disabilities who also have needs and deserve to keep up with their libido. A sex toy will be of excellent help for them to remain satisfied.
Great for Learning
If you’re a curious young man and want to explore their solo time (before you get to show your performance to a partner) a sex toy is a great way to see what it’s all about. Don’t feel embarrassed to buy it; nowadays you can purchase things online and get them delivered in a discrete package, so no one will know what you got.
Discretion
Men’s sex toys are still kind of taboo. But, manufacturers know that discretion is the key. This is why most of these toys are perfectly hidden in discrete shapes like flashlights. You can be an open-minded person, but it still feels much easier to be able to own a sex toy that doesn’t look like a sex toy.
Improved Stamina
If you are facing the challenge of fast climaxing and want to change that, you can easily practice with your masturbator. You can use it with or without a partner. The fleshlight can be a real saver when it comes to long-lasting and quality intercourse. It can improve the man’s stamina and the sex can last much longer.
The fact that these toys are the equivalent of female genitalia, mouth and anus, will only make the whole experience realistic and sexy, without you thinking that you’re doing something weird, dirty or practice to keep your stamina.
And you will agree that it feels much better to do this with a masturbator than with a hand.
Excellent for Mutual Masturbation
Men aren’t the only visual creatures. Every woman will tell you that there is nothing sexier than a man enjoying their intimate moments, and she would love watching you stimulating yourself with a sex toy. If you’re looking for ways to spice things up in the bedroom, it can go both ways. If she has sex toys that work miracles for her, you too should get one for yourself. Not only it will help her see how penetration looks from your point of view, but she may show which angles work perfect for her. So, it’s great for educational purposes as well.
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